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The Disease to Please Harriet Braiker
Publisher: McGraw-Hill Companies, The

People-pleasing can hinder a woman's effectiveness in resolving conflict. The disease to please is very common, especially among women and even more so among those who suffer from low self-esteem. Do you feel guilty if you dont comply with the expectations or requests of others? Are you pulled in various directions from your future husband, friends and/or family? Are you a future bride that has the “disease to please?” Are you struggling with which type of wedding you should have? We all want to be wanted and needed, and the 'disease to please' can be tough to discard. Do you have the disease to please? Is it hard for you to say "no" and mean it? When you are actually not sorry? Getting a diagnosis is as easy as answering the following 4 questions: Do you say yes when you really want to say no? This must be a book that is made for me and for others who has this what they call the “disease to please”. We do ourselves a lot of harm trying to fit in with others and become who we think they want us to be, just to be loved.